Being Married to A Difficult Man

I love my HuZzbend. He is a very talented and smart man. He is also very complicated and difficult to talk to. I try to show him that I care by checking up on him and asking him about his day. He doesn't like questions. How am I supposed to know how he's feeling or what is going on in his head if I don't ask him? The more questions that I ask, the more defensive he gets. Now there are times when he is very sweet and open. He likes to talk alot about things, politics and science and stuff. He asks me what I think, but I really don't know much about those things. He lets things build up inside of him until you ask him the wrong question- then he just goes off. He has so much going on in his mind, and I just want to take care of him, but he doesn't let me. He lets needy people (women) get close to him and add stress to his life trying to solve their problems. It is hard not to like my HuZzbend. He loves to talk to people and tell stories. He's good at that. He loves to be in front of people, but he only shows one side of himself. I would love to take care of him, but he needs to understand that my questions are my way of trying to understand him. He takes on too much by himself, and that worries me. He frustrates me when he gets angry at me for just trying to take care of him. I love my HuZzbend, but he is a difficult man to live with.